Below is the opnion of a lady named Hadez as posted on a popular online forum in Nigeria:
Guys are not only guilty about this, sometimes we ladies really feel the urge to be alone and get down with someone we have a crush on. Okay, enough said. I will go straight and address the issue.
I know some people might take me as a bad girl but I don't care. I am going to state the fact as blunt as possible. Below are top signs a visiting lady wants to have you in bed:
1. She comes to your house with a short skirt or a short gown:
Some guys don't seem to understand the signs though. The thing is we ladies are very conscious of what we wear, so coming to your house looking like a hot model is a cue a smart man should key into.
2. She lays her had on your shoulders or laps:
2. She lays her had on your shoulders or laps:
This is a very popular trick we use but some guys are too quick to start kissing and pressing. This is not cool, it makes us uneasy and we change our mind. Why don't put just take it slow and wait for the right moment then you observe we are actually prepared for the pleasure exercise.
3. Telling you we want to sleep and you shouldn't disturb:
Let me tell you a secret guy, no girl I repeat no girl will ever come to your house if she feels she is tired and will not enjoy herself when she comes.
4. Saying she will be leaving in an hour's time:
4. Saying she will be leaving in an hour's time:
We are actually telling you to make a move but someone guys don't get it. Instead they will be begging us to stay a little longer. Durrhh! if I have somewhere else to go that evening, do you think I will come and spend time in your house?
5. We loose off some buttons on our shirt:
We want you to feel aroused and make a move but instead you will dip your hands in your pocket and probably start going out and coming in. Then you will be forming bad guy later.
6. We tell you to play a song and we start dancing:
If I am dancing in your room, I expect you to join me then along the line you rock me then you know what next to do. But most of you don't even know how to dance. This frustrates the romance process.